Little update...  

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Hei blogger out there... So sorry for not updating for quit sometime... so many things happen this several months untill I cant even spend some time to update this blog... but i promise u i will be back soon for more update in this few months... alrite i have to go now... see u soon... chiow chin chau...

I Am BacK... 2009  

Posted by DJBen

Hai guys, after couple of months on hibernated, now im happily to declare that i'll re-start my blog again... nah actually im kinda busy last few months... busy of what? well u know few months back many celebration, parties, festives and so on... but the best part is spending more time with my nephew from Sweden... seriouly most of the time spend for him...ehehe well its only will happen once every two years though... As plan, my sister and family will only be back to kk once every two years so that will be the only time we spend together... and somemore they only be here for 2 months... so usually i'll do my part to spend time with them... drive them over and play with the kid... okay continue to talk about my schedule for the last few months untill i put on hold for my post to my blog were many... let me start with the last posted i made... its Christmas time... so as usual when Christmas come... there must be a party... go to church and many more... after Christmas there is more bigger event for my family... its my elder brother Marriage... they joined in matrimony at Sacred Heart Cathedral on the 26 December 2008... and thereafter wedding reception at one of the seafood restaurant in KK... and held another reception for bride side at Kg. Tudan, Ranau on 28 Dec. 2008. Man that was far and the road was sucks (sorry sis in-law) ehehe... to be truth that is the most rural place i ever drive with that condition of gravel road but it was a good experience for me and whoever join us that time... btw it bring back good memory for us as the kampung scenery was beautiful and virgin... somemore it was cold in the morning... so we went back on the 29/12/08 to KK and need to get rest for 2 consecutive days inorder to regain the energy for the long journey we had... what an experience...ehehe So on the 31/12/08 just having a small party for New Year celebration and to welcome home the newly married couple back home to our house... so traditionally... tapai was serve (again)... ehehe

New Year 2009... what on new year 2009? well on the 2nd January 09 i start my work after long leave... Just imagine i take leave almost 3 weeks for year end program... thats not funny cause when on the 1st day i start work... my files (new and pending files) piles up to be taller than me (while sitting)... wtf thats a lot of work to be catch up that time... i take bout 1 week before i can catch up my work and do work as usual... crazy... but still i have time for my nephew to play with...ehehe but the good thing on the early 2009... my car was returned to me in an ok condition from the workshop after pushing them hard to repair my car (recall- my car knock by neighbour's car on Nov.08)... so a yey for me cos i can start my day life as usual with my blue gen2.... ehehhe

On the 5th Jan 09- my nephew Ryan Norsater was baptized by Fr. Fundes at Stella Maris Parish Tanjung Aru... I become the God Father for Ryan... so welcome to the world of Christian Ryan (my naughty and köka nephew)...eheheh

This year Chinese New Year was on 26 & 27 January... i took another work leave for CNY 09 celebration... we went back Tenom on the 25th untill the third day of Chinese new year... family gathering for my father side in the occasion of CNY... it so fun and was held in every chinese new year... family members will be back to Kampung and we gather together... play... drinks... eat... have fun together... We as the younger generation hope that the balik kampung tradition will not end and dissapear in the future as which that particular time can tighter the bond among our family members generally... We had come up with a name for our Chong Family on the few years back CNY gathering with CTFC or Chong Teck Family Club... but have yet fully established so we'll see... in few years maybe it will be established enough among our family... eheheh

So after CNY on the way back KK we stop by another relative wedding in Tambunan and on the same time we also take the opportunity to stop by TVRC to food the not ordinary size of pond fish there... Ryan was so happy playing with the fish... new experience for him i guess...

My Sister and family flown back to Sweden on the 04 February 2009 which they transit in KL for 3 days before fly to Sweden on the 06/02/09... so on the the 07/02/09 we check them on the internet messenger which they had safely arrived the same day and my sister complaint on Ryan always crying missing us here... so we set up the webcam for him to see us... Actually we also expecially my parents miss him alot... well we still chatting everynite through skype... ehehe

So after everything... well i still need to re-catch up my work after not concentrating for the last 2 months... untill today then im feel that im free and its time to post my blog...

Well today is a Valentine's day.... maybe everyone was busy on date... but that is only for whom who had partner... so u are seeing me posted my long story blog today... meaning to say im not busy with valentine's day thingy and that means i dont have any partner to date with today... to bad... so who wanna be my partner tonite??? ekekek im still searching for one... hope next year im not posting anything this long story in my blog which would mean that im as busy as others go out dating... uhuhuhu So whoever celebrate it... Wish u HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY... dont forget to wear anything necessary when u do your parts (precautions is better than cure).... ekeke

Okay guys... that all for the restart... see u again in my next post... chiow... lets look at the photos below for my program the last 2 months...

Kampung style food for my sister n family farewell party cum CNY 09

Farewell party

Ryan with mummy and aunts

Ryan with Q.Q

Fish at TVRC

Angpau time

Ryan with gung gung and nainai

CNY gambling time

CNY09 eve... food time

Fourth Generation with red attire

Family group photo with our ancient old mansion

Ryan in action

Angpau time for Ryan and me...ehehhe

Wedding reception at Bride's house

With mabuk face

Road to Tudan

Wedding reception at Resturant

Wedding group photo

Congrats bro... Family wedding potrait...

MeRRy ChRiStMaS... Ho!! Ho!! Ho!!  

Posted by DJBen

Hey my fellow friends, relatives, family and all blogger out there... Wishing U and Your Love One a HappY MeRRy ChRisTmaS 2008... May This Christmas bring happiness, fun and loving to you and family... What is ur plan for today... whatever it is sure it must be fun to gather together with family and friends... Okay have fun and enjoy ur Christmas... Ho!! Ho!! Ho!!

P/S - Happy Birthday to Jesus the Son of God


Welcome Home Carolyn, Martin and Ryan!!!  

Posted by DJBen

Yesterday 07.12.08 my sister(Carol) from Sweden together with family finally arrived KK after14 hours flying... Wish them Selamat Pulang/Welcome Home... This is the first time i met my nephew Ryan the kuai2 boy... Actually my sister and family want to surprise us one family on their arrival cos they dont even tell us went is their flight or arrival from Sweden and telling us that it was on 12 Dec. 08. But as usual my mom got many intelligent (CIA..ehehe) that she can contact for her to know went is the exact arrival date of them... So yesterday instead of my sister giving surprise to us, they are the one that get surprise from us as when they walk out from the arrival hall... they especially carol surprisingly saw my mom holding flower and shin chan waiting outside for them... here some of the moment captured yesterday...

Surprise!!! Welcome back...

Ryan with his mami


Ryan with mormor (grandma)



Little uncle Adriel with Little Ryan


Weekend update!!!  

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Friday...

Last weekend update... let me start with my friday leave... i still got many leave available where i need to use before expired by the end of this year... so apalagi cuti lar... but still eventhough im on leave people (boss, insured, insurer, office etc) still calling my handphone asking for update on my file i handle... man so irritating... ok continue with my weekend... on friday beside the calls pouring in.... i went to workshop checking the progress of my under repair car... its already bout 40% completed... so next week can start with the touch up work before send for painting... hopefully can be completed before Christmas... but i m kinda assured of that...

Satuday...

Saturday i spend most of my time relaxing my body at home surfing internet, watch movie and ya i clean my bedroom... and i become my own eric leong (Malaysia home deco) to decorate my bedroom(not really decorate lar but just changing position of my bed and dressing table)... but now it looks much more bigger/ spacious i can say....ehehhe i dont even knw i got talent in this... so anyone need my advice just gv me a call... eheheh kidding... after finish with my deco... like usual heading to fitness centre to build muscle...eheheh no lar not building muscle just to get some exercise...

Sunday...

Sunday i bring my cousins with family to Karambunai Lagoon for outing... actually they plan to Sipadan Island but considering the weather at tat time with rough sea as it is goin to rain... we had cancel the planned and as advised by uncle Jenddy we heading to Karambunai Lagoon in exchange of the Island mood... actually its the first time i been to Karambuani Lagoon... kinda fun with the facilities/equipment and somemore it is more clean than other beach... so here is some of the photos taken that day wanna share with u all... emh mayb next time u can plan ur weekend here...

The arrival

Choosing what game wanna play

Take a snap first

Aunty and uncle with childrens (dede and odd)

Ready for Kayaking

Hah.. so tired padling kayak
Now its time for banana bot ride...

Banana Boat ride...

Its swimming time...


Actually there are many more games can play beside what u can see in my photos... but i'll let you discover yourself then... till then and untill my next post... chiow...





How To Handle Stress!!!  

Posted by DJBen


Yesterday i was so depress and stressful... no idea y but mayb becos im stress with so many stuff need to be handle in one time... When we stress we are so blur and not thinking right... i believe everyone of us ever encounter stress time (either in study time, working time etc etc) and we know how it feel when we are in stress... so today i just wanna share with all readers out there how i handle my stress time yesterday...
  • Learn your stress! What is the cause for u become stress... Me? All documents come to me in one time, finalising my report, chasing for the due date, pay my car installment, look after my car that under repair at the workshop when i learn that the car maybe could not be fixed before Christmas (i'll make sure i can have the car before Christmas), pay for my house electrical bill, phone bill, streamyx bill, etc. (wow that is too many!!!)
If u look at my workstation like this im sure u also will feel stress like i do, right?

  • Work out ur problem settle it one by one... but of course for the first time dont let urself to be caught on ur surrounding... make sure ur workstation or where ever it is keep it clean and tidy... if u saw ur workstation like my workstation(above photo) pls clean it up and arranged it properly... im sure u cannot do it in one time even though u pile it up like that... right? so the first thing i do after learn my stress is to clean my workstation... im make sure i only left a file which im going to finish it first...

Now my workstation look better (u can feel it oso right)

  • Next is work overtime to settle ur things... its not necessary when ur office hours until 5.30p.m then at 5.30p.m sharp u already left ur office and let ur unfinished work to be continue in the next day... u may need to consider finishing your work before u left ur office... sometimes its better to work extra hour because by that time nobody (ur bos, colleague, phone calls, etc) can interrupt u doin ur work... even though there is still have tomorrow u can settle ur work... but dont forget tomorrow may always have a new work for u to handle... in that case ur work burden will become more and more and untill one time it will exploded and u'll become stressful and depress... so frm now on i start to go back late if i have unfinished work need to be settle on the day...
  • So after u overcome ur problem even for only some part of your problem... things will come positively and u can start seeing all ur other problem be settle by it self and u can just live happily like u before... ehehhe
  • So my dear friends... this is only part of my stress handling story... will update more if i got time cos now i also doin overtime to finish my today's work....so now i need to continue my work before its too late to go back home...ihiihhi... chiow chin chau...




UpDaTe!!!  

Posted by DJBen

  • Today, 23 Nov. 2008 was my sister Carolyn (Sweden) birthday. Would like to wish her HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND MAY GOD BLESS U and family...have a great birthday and heres durian cake for you... remind me to buy u one when u all back here next month k...
  • This week showed the last episode of CSI- Miami S.6 and The Amazing Race Asia 3.
  • CSI-Miami Season 6 ended with Lt. Horatio Caine shot at the airfield while waiting for his x-wife. Who did this to him? what would happen to him next? will he survive the gunshot? lets wait and see on the next season which will be out donno when... hah i cant wait to see what happen... will try to search torrent for the latest season then...
  • The Amazing Race Asia 3- after traveling to seven countries and making their way across 11 cities and covering 21,600km, Sam and Vince are the new winners for The Amazing Race Asia Season 3. Congratulation to the Hong Kong (Sam & Vince) Team. Lucky its not the Philipine (Geoff & Tisha) Team but to bad our Malaysian (Ida Narina & Tania) team only manage to get to the finish line on the third (Congrats anyway for your racing spirit).

TARA 3 Winners - Congrats (wat a race)

2nd Place - The worst racer of all
3rd Place (go go mums team) - our Malaysian favourite team