My new iphone 3gs 16gb  

Posted by DJBen

Well i just get my iphone 3Gs 16GB after about 45 days of waiting through maxis new call plan... Can u imagine i booked this iphone on the 10th of oct and only get it on the 25th of Nov... Uhuhu if not bcos i call up the maxis service ctr myself i think i am still not able to get my iphone then...
But whatever it is after i use it for about 5 days today i feel satisfied and no regret buying this phone cos its really into my needs and style... Uhuhu
I'll post more about this phone in the future... So stay tune...

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LiTtLe BOy ToUCHEs HeartS!!!  

Posted by DJBen

I was walking around in a Target store, when I saw a Cashier hand this little boy some money back.
The boy couldn 't have been more than 5 or 6 years old.

The Cashier said, 'I 'm sorry, but you don 't have enough money to buy this doll. 'Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him: ''Granny,are you sure I don 't have enough money?''

The old lady replied: ''You know that you don 't have enough money to buy this doll, my dear. ''Then she asked him to stay there for just 5 minutes while she went to look around. She left quickly. The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand.

Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give this doll to. 'It 's the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for Christmas. She was sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her. '

I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus would bring it to her after all, and not to worry. But he replied to me sadly. 'No, Santa Claus can 't bring it to her where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there.

'His eyes were so sad while saying this. 'My Sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister. ''

My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said: 'I told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I come back from the mall. '

Then he showed me a very nice photo of himself. He was laughing. He then told me 'I want mommy to take my picture with her so she won 't forget me. '

'I love my mommy and I wish she didn 't have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister. 'Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly.

I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. 'Suppose we check again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll! ''

'OK 'he said, 'I hope I do have enough. 'I added some of my money to his without him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll and even some spare money.

The little boy said: 'Thank you God for giving me enough money! '

Then he looked at me and added, 'I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommy could give it to my sister. He heard me! ''

'I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn 't dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose. ''

'My mommy loves white roses. '

A few minutes later, the old lady returned and I left with my basket.

I finished my shopping in a totally different state of mind from when I started.

I couldn 't get the little boy out of my mind.
Then I remembered a local news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a truck, who hit a car occupied by a young woman and a little girl.
The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to recover from the coma. Was this the family of the little boy?

Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news paper that the young woman had passed away.

I couldn 't stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where the body of the young woman was for people to see and make last wishes before her burial.

She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest.

I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling that my life had been changed for ever.. The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is
still, to this day, hard to imagine.

And in a fraction of a second, a drunk driver had taken all this away from him.

Nails In ThE FEncE...  

Posted by DJBen

"There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all.

He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, 'You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. But It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound will still be there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Remember that friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us.' "


Now send this to every friend you have!! And to your family (they need to know that you love them too).

Please forgive me if I have ever left a 'hole' in your fence.

Little update...  

Posted by DJBen

Hei blogger out there... So sorry for not updating for quit sometime... so many things happen this several months untill I cant even spend some time to update this blog... but i promise u i will be back soon for more update in this few months... alrite i have to go now... see u soon... chiow chin chau...

I Am BacK... 2009  

Posted by DJBen

Hai guys, after couple of months on hibernated, now im happily to declare that i'll re-start my blog again... nah actually im kinda busy last few months... busy of what? well u know few months back many celebration, parties, festives and so on... but the best part is spending more time with my nephew from Sweden... seriouly most of the time spend for him...ehehe well its only will happen once every two years though... As plan, my sister and family will only be back to kk once every two years so that will be the only time we spend together... and somemore they only be here for 2 months... so usually i'll do my part to spend time with them... drive them over and play with the kid... okay continue to talk about my schedule for the last few months untill i put on hold for my post to my blog were many... let me start with the last posted i made... its Christmas time... so as usual when Christmas come... there must be a party... go to church and many more... after Christmas there is more bigger event for my family... its my elder brother Marriage... they joined in matrimony at Sacred Heart Cathedral on the 26 December 2008... and thereafter wedding reception at one of the seafood restaurant in KK... and held another reception for bride side at Kg. Tudan, Ranau on 28 Dec. 2008. Man that was far and the road was sucks (sorry sis in-law) ehehe... to be truth that is the most rural place i ever drive with that condition of gravel road but it was a good experience for me and whoever join us that time... btw it bring back good memory for us as the kampung scenery was beautiful and virgin... somemore it was cold in the morning... so we went back on the 29/12/08 to KK and need to get rest for 2 consecutive days inorder to regain the energy for the long journey we had... what an experience...ehehe So on the 31/12/08 just having a small party for New Year celebration and to welcome home the newly married couple back home to our house... so traditionally... tapai was serve (again)... ehehe

New Year 2009... what on new year 2009? well on the 2nd January 09 i start my work after long leave... Just imagine i take leave almost 3 weeks for year end program... thats not funny cause when on the 1st day i start work... my files (new and pending files) piles up to be taller than me (while sitting)... wtf thats a lot of work to be catch up that time... i take bout 1 week before i can catch up my work and do work as usual... crazy... but still i have time for my nephew to play with...ehehe but the good thing on the early 2009... my car was returned to me in an ok condition from the workshop after pushing them hard to repair my car (recall- my car knock by neighbour's car on Nov.08)... so a yey for me cos i can start my day life as usual with my blue gen2.... ehehhe

On the 5th Jan 09- my nephew Ryan Norsater was baptized by Fr. Fundes at Stella Maris Parish Tanjung Aru... I become the God Father for Ryan... so welcome to the world of Christian Ryan (my naughty and köka nephew)...eheheh

This year Chinese New Year was on 26 & 27 January... i took another work leave for CNY 09 celebration... we went back Tenom on the 25th untill the third day of Chinese new year... family gathering for my father side in the occasion of CNY... it so fun and was held in every chinese new year... family members will be back to Kampung and we gather together... play... drinks... eat... have fun together... We as the younger generation hope that the balik kampung tradition will not end and dissapear in the future as which that particular time can tighter the bond among our family members generally... We had come up with a name for our Chong Family on the few years back CNY gathering with CTFC or Chong Teck Family Club... but have yet fully established so we'll see... in few years maybe it will be established enough among our family... eheheh

So after CNY on the way back KK we stop by another relative wedding in Tambunan and on the same time we also take the opportunity to stop by TVRC to food the not ordinary size of pond fish there... Ryan was so happy playing with the fish... new experience for him i guess...

My Sister and family flown back to Sweden on the 04 February 2009 which they transit in KL for 3 days before fly to Sweden on the 06/02/09... so on the the 07/02/09 we check them on the internet messenger which they had safely arrived the same day and my sister complaint on Ryan always crying missing us here... so we set up the webcam for him to see us... Actually we also expecially my parents miss him alot... well we still chatting everynite through skype... ehehe

So after everything... well i still need to re-catch up my work after not concentrating for the last 2 months... untill today then im feel that im free and its time to post my blog...

Well today is a Valentine's day.... maybe everyone was busy on date... but that is only for whom who had partner... so u are seeing me posted my long story blog today... meaning to say im not busy with valentine's day thingy and that means i dont have any partner to date with today... to bad... so who wanna be my partner tonite??? ekekek im still searching for one... hope next year im not posting anything this long story in my blog which would mean that im as busy as others go out dating... uhuhuhu So whoever celebrate it... Wish u HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY... dont forget to wear anything necessary when u do your parts (precautions is better than cure).... ekeke

Okay guys... that all for the restart... see u again in my next post... chiow... lets look at the photos below for my program the last 2 months...

Kampung style food for my sister n family farewell party cum CNY 09

Farewell party

Ryan with mummy and aunts

Ryan with Q.Q

Fish at TVRC

Angpau time

Ryan with gung gung and nainai

CNY gambling time

CNY09 eve... food time

Fourth Generation with red attire

Family group photo with our ancient old mansion

Ryan in action

Angpau time for Ryan and me...ehehhe

Wedding reception at Bride's house

With mabuk face

Road to Tudan

Wedding reception at Resturant

Wedding group photo

Congrats bro... Family wedding potrait...

MeRRy ChRiStMaS... Ho!! Ho!! Ho!!  

Posted by DJBen

Hey my fellow friends, relatives, family and all blogger out there... Wishing U and Your Love One a HappY MeRRy ChRisTmaS 2008... May This Christmas bring happiness, fun and loving to you and family... What is ur plan for today... whatever it is sure it must be fun to gather together with family and friends... Okay have fun and enjoy ur Christmas... Ho!! Ho!! Ho!!

P/S - Happy Birthday to Jesus the Son of God

Welcome Home Carolyn, Martin and Ryan!!!  

Posted by DJBen

Yesterday 07.12.08 my sister(Carol) from Sweden together with family finally arrived KK after14 hours flying... Wish them Selamat Pulang/Welcome Home... This is the first time i met my nephew Ryan the kuai2 boy... Actually my sister and family want to surprise us one family on their arrival cos they dont even tell us went is their flight or arrival from Sweden and telling us that it was on 12 Dec. 08. But as usual my mom got many intelligent (CIA..ehehe) that she can contact for her to know went is the exact arrival date of them... So yesterday instead of my sister giving surprise to us, they are the one that get surprise from us as when they walk out from the arrival hall... they especially carol surprisingly saw my mom holding flower and shin chan waiting outside for them... here some of the moment captured yesterday...

Surprise!!! Welcome back...

Ryan with his mami

Ryan with mormor (grandma)

Little uncle Adriel with Little Ryan