MeRRy ChRiStMaS... Ho!! Ho!! Ho!!  

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Hey my fellow friends, relatives, family and all blogger out there... Wishing U and Your Love One a HappY MeRRy ChRisTmaS 2008... May This Christmas bring happiness, fun and loving to you and family... What is ur plan for today... whatever it is sure it must be fun to gather together with family and friends... Okay have fun and enjoy ur Christmas... Ho!! Ho!! Ho!!

P/S - Happy Birthday to Jesus the Son of God


Welcome Home Carolyn, Martin and Ryan!!!  

Posted by DJBen

Yesterday 07.12.08 my sister(Carol) from Sweden together with family finally arrived KK after14 hours flying... Wish them Selamat Pulang/Welcome Home... This is the first time i met my nephew Ryan the kuai2 boy... Actually my sister and family want to surprise us one family on their arrival cos they dont even tell us went is their flight or arrival from Sweden and telling us that it was on 12 Dec. 08. But as usual my mom got many intelligent (CIA..ehehe) that she can contact for her to know went is the exact arrival date of them... So yesterday instead of my sister giving surprise to us, they are the one that get surprise from us as when they walk out from the arrival hall... they especially carol surprisingly saw my mom holding flower and shin chan waiting outside for them... here some of the moment captured yesterday...

Surprise!!! Welcome back...

Ryan with his mami


Ryan with mormor (grandma)



Little uncle Adriel with Little Ryan


Weekend update!!!  

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Friday...

Last weekend update... let me start with my friday leave... i still got many leave available where i need to use before expired by the end of this year... so apalagi cuti lar... but still eventhough im on leave people (boss, insured, insurer, office etc) still calling my handphone asking for update on my file i handle... man so irritating... ok continue with my weekend... on friday beside the calls pouring in.... i went to workshop checking the progress of my under repair car... its already bout 40% completed... so next week can start with the touch up work before send for painting... hopefully can be completed before Christmas... but i m kinda assured of that...

Satuday...

Saturday i spend most of my time relaxing my body at home surfing internet, watch movie and ya i clean my bedroom... and i become my own eric leong (Malaysia home deco) to decorate my bedroom(not really decorate lar but just changing position of my bed and dressing table)... but now it looks much more bigger/ spacious i can say....ehehhe i dont even knw i got talent in this... so anyone need my advice just gv me a call... eheheh kidding... after finish with my deco... like usual heading to fitness centre to build muscle...eheheh no lar not building muscle just to get some exercise...

Sunday...

Sunday i bring my cousins with family to Karambunai Lagoon for outing... actually they plan to Sipadan Island but considering the weather at tat time with rough sea as it is goin to rain... we had cancel the planned and as advised by uncle Jenddy we heading to Karambunai Lagoon in exchange of the Island mood... actually its the first time i been to Karambuani Lagoon... kinda fun with the facilities/equipment and somemore it is more clean than other beach... so here is some of the photos taken that day wanna share with u all... emh mayb next time u can plan ur weekend here...

The arrival

Choosing what game wanna play

Take a snap first

Aunty and uncle with childrens (dede and odd)

Ready for Kayaking

Hah.. so tired padling kayak
Now its time for banana bot ride...

Banana Boat ride...

Its swimming time...


Actually there are many more games can play beside what u can see in my photos... but i'll let you discover yourself then... till then and untill my next post... chiow...





How To Handle Stress!!!  

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Yesterday i was so depress and stressful... no idea y but mayb becos im stress with so many stuff need to be handle in one time... When we stress we are so blur and not thinking right... i believe everyone of us ever encounter stress time (either in study time, working time etc etc) and we know how it feel when we are in stress... so today i just wanna share with all readers out there how i handle my stress time yesterday...
  • Learn your stress! What is the cause for u become stress... Me? All documents come to me in one time, finalising my report, chasing for the due date, pay my car installment, look after my car that under repair at the workshop when i learn that the car maybe could not be fixed before Christmas (i'll make sure i can have the car before Christmas), pay for my house electrical bill, phone bill, streamyx bill, etc. (wow that is too many!!!)
If u look at my workstation like this im sure u also will feel stress like i do, right?

  • Work out ur problem settle it one by one... but of course for the first time dont let urself to be caught on ur surrounding... make sure ur workstation or where ever it is keep it clean and tidy... if u saw ur workstation like my workstation(above photo) pls clean it up and arranged it properly... im sure u cannot do it in one time even though u pile it up like that... right? so the first thing i do after learn my stress is to clean my workstation... im make sure i only left a file which im going to finish it first...

Now my workstation look better (u can feel it oso right)

  • Next is work overtime to settle ur things... its not necessary when ur office hours until 5.30p.m then at 5.30p.m sharp u already left ur office and let ur unfinished work to be continue in the next day... u may need to consider finishing your work before u left ur office... sometimes its better to work extra hour because by that time nobody (ur bos, colleague, phone calls, etc) can interrupt u doin ur work... even though there is still have tomorrow u can settle ur work... but dont forget tomorrow may always have a new work for u to handle... in that case ur work burden will become more and more and untill one time it will exploded and u'll become stressful and depress... so frm now on i start to go back late if i have unfinished work need to be settle on the day...
  • So after u overcome ur problem even for only some part of your problem... things will come positively and u can start seeing all ur other problem be settle by it self and u can just live happily like u before... ehehhe
  • So my dear friends... this is only part of my stress handling story... will update more if i got time cos now i also doin overtime to finish my today's work....so now i need to continue my work before its too late to go back home...ihiihhi... chiow chin chau...